Being loud is always a bit uncomfortable, especially as a woman. One can quickly be labeled as "hysterical" or "dramatic." However, these terms are not only used by men; women also use them to degrade other women: "I'm not like the others" or "Men are just much less dramatic" are just a fraction of the phrases still heard even in 2022. But what is the reason for this? In her new book, cultural scientist and successful influencer Tara-Louise Wittwer addresses the obvious and subtle devaluation of femininity. She reveals that not only men act misogynistically—meaning they are anti-women—but that women also undermine each other. Growing up and being constantly conditioned in patriarchal structures has solidified misogyny in our minds. The activist ruthlessly questions her own behavior patterns and those of others. She reflects on her role as a woman in society—caught between judgment and condemnation—and shows ways in which we, as women (and men!), can treat each other more fairly.