As the "Generation Relationship-Unable," they are currently a hot topic - people whose relationships repeatedly fail due to a fear of closeness and intimacy. However, Stefanie Stahl, Germany's leading expert on attachment anxiety, asserts that everyone is capable of having a relationship. Most of us have the potential to be happy with a partner. A fulfilling romantic relationship is not a coincidence, but rather a matter of inner attitude. Central to this is strengthening self-worth and finding the balance between adaptation and self-assertion. When we understand these mechanisms, we no longer have to wait for our partner to change or for Mr. or Mrs. Right to knock on our door; instead, we can actively shape our partnerships.