Everyone dies their own death (Rilke), and we try to accompany them. But not only the dying, the relatives and loved ones also need our attention. How can we accompany them? Rainer Teufel addressed this topic. There is no one-size-fits-all solution or manual, but Teufel developed a counseling model that allows both professional and volunteer caregivers to reflect on the support of relatives and at the same time structure their own conversations. This leads to improved communication skills and greater confidence on both sides. Teufel draws on a wealth of practical experience and combines it with proven methods and models. Often, small gestures are enough during the process of building relationships with the relatives. Rainer Teufel.