The book is aimed at family members, friends, or caregivers of individuals with borderline personality disorder. They often find themselves at a loss when faced with intense emotional outbursts, mood swings, and problematic behaviors. Well-meaning offers of help often exacerbate the situation. Since the author is both a therapist and someone who has experienced the disorder, she is able to provide the necessary background information on the origins and mechanisms of the illness, as well as clarify the experiences of those affected. Real-life examples illustrate typical situations faced by affected families and highlight constructive ways to cope. Before publication, the book was reviewed for professional accuracy and practical applicability by therapists, individuals affected, and their relatives.