Many people searching for a new partner eventually feel that nothing is going right and they no longer know what to do. Perceived obstacles pile up, and their own strength seems insufficient to overcome them. What to do? Daan van Kampenhout shares his experiences from many years of counseling in "I Let Myself Be Found." His topics range from the burdens of the past, former lovers, family, and children, to self-reflection and subsequent fieldwork in making connections. With great empathy, humor, and creativity, Kampenhout guides the reader through more than 80 exercises, rituals, and meditations. These help uncover paralyzing behavior patterns, free oneself from past burdens, and open up to a new partnership. An unconventional guide for both men and women.