In this consistently solution-oriented book, the author duo bids farewell to the popular mutual blame and over-analysis often found in couples therapy and the lives of couples. Instead, they demonstrate how to find better ways to collaborate in solving shared problems and interrupt destructive communication patterns. Their approach is hopeful, positive, and - not to be forgotten - it harnesses the unbeatable power of humor. This book is filled with strategies for change, tasks and rituals for couples, but above all, it includes a variety of love stories, showcasing how couples have successfully transformed their patterns of living together using the techniques presented here.