"Two Kinds of Happiness" is a guide that addresses the conditions influencing the success or failure of relationships between men and women, as well as between parents and children. The book discusses the "Orders of Love" and offers valuable insights into the dynamics of human coexistence. It highlights fundamental aspects such as belonging, the role of parents, and equality in partnerships. The insights of Bert Hellinger open new perspectives on intergenerational entanglements and their therapeutic processing. Through the method of family constellations, solutions are presented that are both moving and simple yet effective. This work is a valuable resource for anyone looking to deepen and understand their relationships.