"Relationship instead of education" is the key concept of Jesper Juul's family model. The renowned family therapist presents in this audiobook the five fundamental pillars upon which family life can thrive: He explains the significance of cooperation and integrity, emphasizes the priority of self-esteem over self-confidence, describes how to take personal responsibility, why parents must act as beacons, and how to effectively practice the art of saying "no." With this, he aims to provide impulses for constructively approaching conflicts and to help parents build a relationship of equality with their children. It is a concentrated summary of experiences from 35 years of family therapy.