The pain of separating from a beloved partner can last: in the best case, a few weeks; in the worst case, a lifetime. Renowned psychotherapist Rhonda Findling reveals what keeps this pain unnecessarily alive and what can shorten and heal it. Findling knows what she is talking about: she has not only guided countless women through the grieving process to complete letting go and healing but has also experienced a traumatic separation herself. With numerous case studies, exercises, and a 10-step program developed by Rhonda Findling, the book compassionately guides readers through the phases of grief and anger, despair and depression, to liberating healing. "Don't Call!" offers professional self-help not only for women who struggle to overcome their separation from an ex-partner but also for women in general.