Security, autonomy, and success are what young people desire. In this context, they develop attempts to meet these fundamental psychological needs. If these attempts are inadequate, the environment responds with demeaning reactions—leading to feelings of shame among the youth. Moreover, it is primarily the loss of dignity that makes it so difficult for them. Philip Streit has been working with young people and their families for over 20 years. In this book, he shows parents and interested laypeople the power of what is known as New Authority, how adults can approach young people respectfully and attentively, and how they can constructively utilize feelings of shame. Numerous case studies and exercises from positive psychology facilitate practical implementation in everyday life. Experience shows that those who practice and experiment with these approaches are not only surprised by the positive results.