Why does violence breed violence? Why do some people repeatedly find themselves in destructive relationships, whether as victims or perpetrators? This book explores in detail how the cycle of violence is initiated and maintained. Violence in intimate relationships is a widespread yet taboo phenomenon in our "civilized" society. According to a large study, one in four women has experienced physical assaults from their partner. Men also appear to suffer significantly from domestic aggression; in their case, verbal and psychological attacks often outweigh purely physical violence. The book examines the origins and effects of destructive relationship patterns. It illustrates how experiences of violence or neglect, coupled with a central feeling of powerlessness, can lead to acts of aggression.