We live in an age of change and transformation. Being flexible is no longer just a crucial criterion in certain industries; we are now encouraged to quickly adapt to new circumstances in almost all areas of life. To avoid suffering under this mandate, we should always strive to act in ways that increase our options. This is of immense importance! The author presents solutions in his work, for when the winds of change blow, we must build windmills. He returns individual responsibility and freedom of choice to people by clearly explaining, using systems theory and constructivist ideas, how we can become the cause and creators of our environment once again. He discusses, in the context of therapy, coaching, and brain research, how and why this is possible.