Shirley Glass explains how affairs can occur even in happy relationships through initially almost imperceptible boundary crossings, where the traps lurk, and how to mend broken souls after the traumatizing event of discovery. Affairs occur in virtually all relationships. About 25% of all women and 40% of all men have been unfaithful to their partner. The workplace and the Internet especially create opportunities for friendships to slowly and inexorably evolve into love affairs. This is a book for all, - who have had a fling or adultery, - who want to know how not to give a fling a chance, - who want to putty their relationship again, - who have left or been left by their partner or - who were the reason why the new partner gave up their old relationship.