Attacks may initially seem factual. However, sharp remarks, critical questions, objections, or unfounded accusations cannot be resolved with factual arguments. Quick-wittedness may appear spontaneous, but it is not always related to spontaneity. Language can be viewed as a tool. Those who master its use not only command respect from others but are also confronted with attacks much less frequently. "Countering" is derived from martial arts. It involves intercepting the opponent's attack by neutralizing its energy. Only those who forgo the attacker’s loss of face can defuse provocations with confidence. Through hundreds of dialogue examples and numerous exercises in this book, you can learn to defuse verbal attacks with poise.