Michael Nast, since his No. 1 bestseller the mouthpiece for the relationship-incompetent generation, has new news for his readership: The dream partner of our imaginations, who meets our manifold requirements, does not exist! The reasons for the constant failure of our dates and relationships are our wrong ideal conceptions, paired with the own self-optimization mania and our representation mania in the social media. The superficiality and non-commitment of today's dating apps Tinder and Co. then top it all off. In his new book "Generation Beziehungsunfähig: The Solutions," the Berliner shows how we can change our behavior - because we ourselves land the "rivets." In order to avoid that, we must work on us - however evenly not in the sense of the self-promoting Selbstoptimierung! But by getting to know and understand ourselves better. Michael Nast shows his readers that they are not alone with their problems to find a partner - and what solutions can be from the dilemma.