Actually, I wanted to, should, must ... From tomorrow on, I will ... and yet everything remains the same. Many people want to change themselves and their lives. But where do we find the strength to actually do it? The author unfolds concrete and relatable methods to tap into the most important inner sources of strength for personal development and to overcome typical obstacles along the way. The experienced therapist describes how it is possible to recognize one's own fundamental character structure and to harness its positive energy. He shows how strong life energy can be drawn from dreams and value imaginations and guides readers to rediscover hidden motivational forces. Practical aids for appreciating and asserting oneself are presented as vividly as the paths to successful interactions with others.