Why are we sometimes hurt by our romantic partner? And why do we hurt and disappoint the person we love the most? Even in a partnership, we sometimes unleash our defenses to protect ourselves in stressful situations. However, unlike with a colleague or neighbor, we cannot distance ourselves from our partner to resolve the issue. Different mechanisms are needed. This workbook helps you identify the defenses that negatively impact a partnership. Profiles and questionnaires provide valuable assistance on how to overcome obstacles and make our love even more secure and vibrant. Worksheets invite you to explore the spiritual aspect of our romantic relationship.