Part one: You only have ten seconds to show you're a somebody. Part two: What do I say after I say "hi?" Part three: How to talk like the big boys and girls. Part four: How to be an insider in any crowd. Part five: Why, we're just alike! Part six: The power of praise, the folly of flattery. Part seven: Direct dial their hearts. Part eight: How to work a party like a politician works a room. Part nine: Little tricks of big winners. A final word: Your destiny. Notes. Selected bibliography.