How can one find happiness when feeling like a woman but having a male body - or vice versa? Transgender individuals, crossdressers, or transvestites are travelers between the worlds of gender. They struggle to understand themselves and often face misunderstanding from others. Frequently, their suffering stems less from their own identity and more from the challenges of daily interactions with others, especially within their own families. This book offers concrete paths to better self-understanding and provides tips on how affected individuals can navigate these difficulties while enjoying life more. Jula Böge (born in 1960) is knowledgeable about the subject and writes from personal experience. She herself lives the duality that is the focus of the book: a happily married husband and father who identifies as a woman. She works as a lawyer in a large corporation.