What strengths characterize families of disabled children that manage to lead a fulfilling life "despite everything"? And how can counseling and therapy promote these strengths? Rüdiger Retzlaff examines how acceptance and resilience develop and provides detailed guidance for resource-oriented work. Living with a disabled child is a significant challenge for parents, yet many families cope remarkably well with their situation. Drawing on concepts from systemic therapy, family and coherence research, and interviews with families, Retzlaff conveys an understanding of the family patterns and attitudes that contribute to fostering acceptance and resilience.