Almost every couple reaches a point where the joy of love is no longer present, frequent arguments dominate the relationship, and the question arises: Stay or go? Couples therapist Holger Kuntze describes a way to reconnect in such situations. This path involves freeing oneself from habitual patterns of thinking and acting and developing inner flexibility. It’s about questioning automated reactions, listening openly and without defensiveness, and choosing each other anew. A wise and encouraging book that shows why there is no perfect partner and how we can still be happy together.