Care operates at the boundaries where the dignity of individuals can easily be violated: the boundaries of nudity, privacy, and intimacy. When our dignity or that of another person is compromised, we feel shame. When feelings of shame are consciously recognized and interpreted, they can fulfill their protective function as the "guardian of human dignity." This guide helps to better understand dignity and shame in care situations. Vivid examples illustrate the masks behind which shame can hide and the conditions that complicate appropriate handling of boundaries related to shame. The perspectives of caregivers (both laypersons and professionals) are taken into account, as well as those of the individuals receiving care. A unique support for all who wish to provide dignified care.