Jürgen Fischer is not a professional sex expert, but rather a writer, artist, and practitioner who has experienced the tumult of the wild sixties and seventies. Through his intensive engagement with Wilhelm Reich, he has discovered new approaches to the topic of sexuality.

In this very personal book, Jürgen Fischer (65) writes about fulfilling sexuality in old age, addresses the question of what good sex actually is, and contrasts conventional sexual activity with energetic love, which consists of genital encounters and work with the pain body. Both are equally integral to sexual love.

Like Eckhart Tolle, Jürgen Fischer describes the pain body as an autonomous personality structure with which people sometimes identify. They then unconsciously seek to experience pain. Only when one perceives it directly beyond all content does it lose the power to destroy partnership love. Energetic love is only possible at the core, in the heart, where the pain body cannot exist.