What does it take for counseling with men to be successful? From the perspective of the men seeking counseling – that is, from the user's viewpoint – the specific needs of men are highlighted for the counselor. The insights gained from this are applicable not only in a professional context but also in conversations between men in private settings. The thematic focus and analysis of clients' perceptions provide clarity for a professional counseling process, presented in a scientifically grounded and practical manner. This approach makes it easier for men to take the step into counseling, to keep them engaged, and to work with them in a resource-oriented yet confrontational way. A book for men, a book for men working in counseling, and a book for women who work with men or want to understand their perspectives.