"Drum prüfe, wer sich ewig bindet" by Alexandra Bleyer is a humorous and profound exploration of the challenges and pitfalls of marriage. The book sheds light on the often romanticized notions of marriage and confronts readers with the reality, which is frequently marked by complications and misunderstandings. Through historical anecdotes, such as that of Henry VIII, it illustrates how partner selection and expectations of married couples have varied throughout history. Bleyer addresses the difficulties that can arise after the wedding and questions the societal norms that burden couples. With a sharp eye for irony and wit, the book invites readers to reflect on their own views of marriage and engage with the challenges of shared life.