What we admire in people is usually not their appearance, nor are it solely their talents and abilities. We are deeply impressed when someone is at peace with themselves, treats others lovingly and fairly, yet has clear ideas and goals – in short: when they possess a solid, mature personality. Thomas Härry shows how to develop such a personality in his usual empathetic, well-founded, and practical manner. He also addresses the dilemmas we often find ourselves in: How can we show strength while remaining vulnerable? Pursue a plan while being flexible at the same time? The wise thoughts and insights of the Swiss bestselling author are essential aids on the path to a solid personality that acts maturely.