Not like that, man! - How Women Win the Game of Power. Revised and expanded new edition of the bestseller. Unlike women, men use language much more often as a tool of power, send completely different body signals, and exhibit pronounced territorial behavior. Women best counter these displays of power with arrogance—not as a way of life, but as an effective tool. Peter Modler has been demonstrating how this works in practice for years through his arrogance training for women, where typical workplace situations are reenacted. Modler illustrates his remarkable insights with numerous examples and tips that help women learn how to assert themselves better in everyday life.