Partners who are in a relationship with someone with borderline personality disorder are constantly under significant pressure, emotional strain, and a rollercoaster of feelings. They suffer continuously from a symptom of this disorder, being inappropriately idealized and then devalued. In this new self-help book, the author illustrates how partners can strengthen themselves through self-acceptance. She analyzes typical case studies and demonstrates that there are recurring patterns that leave a person in a borderline relationship feeling helpless. Manuela Rösel also describes effective solutions that affected partners can implement immediately and easily. "Like the Moth to the Light" is a must-read for all those connected to someone with borderline personality disorder and is also very suitable for processing a relationship that has already ended.