A child is born, but it doesn't fit into the blue-pink or boy-girl schema. What must be considered a rare but still natural variation due to genetic conditions develops into a difficult chain of problems and decisions for the child and their parents, often accompanied by fears, ignorance, prejudices, and misinformation. Clara Morgen writes about her life with her child, initially named Franz but later referred to as Franzi based on medical advice, about doctors and their diagnoses, about the questions of openness towards the child and the circle of friends or acquaintances, about the fatal problems and consequences of surgeries, about self-doubt and guilt. But also about the joy of loving this child uniquely and witnessing them grow up in an environment that accepts differences, thus providing the child with...