"Once you have the man by the penis, you have him completely." - Lilith van Leuwen This sentence contains one of the most important secrets: the key to the center of female power. The author invites readers to accompany her on her unusual journey, moving from the constraints of old patterns to the moment she realizes that waiting for her partner to behave as she wishes is not the solution for a successful relationship. She presents a possible path to a successful relationship, where neither partner is solely responsible - it can only work together. And ideally in a female-led relationship. In this book, the conventional understanding of women's roles is turned upside down. FLR (Female Led Relationship), the female-led relationship, is a relationship model with potential for success.