Relationships are supposed to be heaven on earth, but the exact opposite is almost always the case. The love for a partner is buried beneath the pain of constant arguments, mutual blame, and deep wounds. In their book, Jeff and Sue Allen not only reveal the hidden driving forces at work in all relationships but also provide ways to recognize and transform them. Drawing on their own authentic story, they take the reader on a journey through the stages, dangers, mazes, and pitfalls that must be overcome in a relationship to achieve true love and genuine happiness.