Sexualized violence against boys is still considered a taboo subject. The pressure to keep silent is part of the problem. This book attempts to open a new perspective: for the first time in the German-speaking world, a systematic analysis of "conditions for success" is presented. Based on qualitative interviews with affected adolescents and their parents, the author demonstrates how silence can be broken. In this way, a picture of a diverse psychological landscape emerges, in which possible paths out of the dark field can be inscribed. A book with many thought-provoking ideas and calls to action for those in psychosocial and legal practice, as well as for those affected and their families. Conclusion: Seeking help does not have to be unmanly.