Every child longs in their deepest heart for security with their mother and father: "I love and need you both!" The bond with parents is the foundation for the child's future relationships. This book encourages the development of a systemic perspective in parenting. This perspective helps to understand the struggles of children who exhibit behavioral issues or learning difficulties, which may point to unresolved family problems - some of which may stem from previous generations. Concrete exercises inspire parents, educators, and teachers to creatively seek good solutions for the children and their environment. Systemic thinking, feeling, and acting can significantly relieve the everyday challenges of parenting both at home and in educational settings.