Being gay, bisexual, or lesbian is no longer a major issue in Germany today, is it? We are an enlightened country after all. But is that really the case? For example, what is intersexuality, and what is the difference between transgender and trans-ident individuals? What does queer mean, and what does homosexual mean? And - much more importantly - do people who want to understand and live their sexual orientation, gender identity, and gender role differently from the majority truly experience the acceptance from their fellow humans that they deserve? Comic artist Martina Schradi has not only asked herself these questions but also the people affected - directly, personally, and intimately. In doing so, she has received a catalog of answers that is enlightening and informative, sometimes amusing, but also capable of evoking that familiar lump in the throat. "Oh, so that's how it is.".